Anticipated Serendipity II

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Eating with a Conscience

So we were chatting this evening, about food and cooking... and C brought up her experience with cooking crabs. J chipped in and asked if we knew how to select good crabs. So she was telling us how and all that and then she went on to talk about cooking crabs. She said "You turn the crab over, use the knife to cut/break the shell and rip it off." While the crab was still alive. Then you cook it.

I went "Oh nooooo! The poor crab!!" And they looked at me like I was a bit psycho.

That made me think about the time when someone told me that the Japanese ate their fish partly fried with it still alive and flopping on the table, I felt quite sick. When I read how geese had their feet nailed to the floorboard and being force-feed so that they won't move in order to get their livers fat enough to be made into foie gras, I was literally sick AND disgusted.

See, I'm pretty ok with people eating animals/meat (but not exotic or endangered ones) as long the animal is killed instantly without having to suffer. I just cannot accept the way animals have to suffer just so we humans can satisfy our tastebuds. When I hear/read about how animals are treated such as the above, I automatically feel like I "feel" the animals' pain. Literally, I feel myself cringing when I imagine how it must feel like to have my chest and stomach fried while I'm still alive... or have my feet nailed to the ground and unable to move while a steel tube is forced down my throat to force-feed me.

It's not that I WANT to think like this. It's an automatic reaction that I get. I can't stop it, it just happens naturally to me. I guess that's one of the reasons why I'm so bent on animal welfare and why I feel so strongly for animals. I think a lot of people would think I'm a bit "off" but they just don't understand that animals are living creatures too and they feel pain like we do and they have feelings like we do (though studies have disputed this and reported that fish have no feelings). But whatever it is, animals ARE living creatures not very unlike us and if we were to eat them, we could at least give them the dignity of instant death rather than let them suffer.

The Food Revolution by John Robbins is a good read. Opens up your eyes about how we get our meat and why he decided to give up his inheritance of the Baskin-Robbins multimillion dollar ice cream empire.

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There was another time when I was reading a news report on how a group of boys had tortured a cat to death by first pulling each of its legs in different directions, breaking them and then running over her with the wheel of a car over and over.

That made me totally sick to my stomach.

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Gah, people!!!!!!!!

Some people are just too rude for their own good, too big-headed for their own good, and suck up too much for their own good.

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On another note, work's pretty ok so far. Except for the fact that the system sucks and the vendor's got a major attitude problem. Seriously, I haven't worked with a vendor who calls up for like, 20-30 mins, talking about goodness-knows-what about the project but ending the call without any resolution! Geez!

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I spoke too soon today. Or rather, admitted to a mistake too soon... and realized later that it wasn't my mistake after all. Haha!

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The way some people act sometimes, it's like the world owes them a favor or something like that. And dun get me started on how some people treat others with some sort of double standard. Like everything's some other person's fault. Duh, it takes two to tango *rolling eyes*

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I think I'm getting used to limited internet access every day. Some days I get home from work and I dun feel like getting onto the internet to check my mail. Whereas, I used to check my mail regularly during and after work. Hhmmm... this could turn out to be a blessing, hehe... ;o)

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Back to Grey's Anatomy...

:o)

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Taichi Masters

Hhmm... I detect a trend. It seems that almost everywhere I work, the people with whom I work are such good tai chi masters. And there is almost virtually NO sense of ownership at all.

Definition of a Tai Chi Master : a person who is an expert at "delegating" his/her task(s) to others so that s/he is free of any responsibility of answering to anyone regarding the said task(s)

Like in my current job... I'm in the Project Mgt dept (PMO) where we're gatekeepers to the projects to ensure that projects are compliant to standard guidelines and also to ensure that project activities and tasks are completed on time, documents are signed off on time, etc. This project is a huge one which involves implementing a system that affects a large number of users. Naturally, we can't possibly contact each and every user to get their updates so we would ideally appoint a team lead to own certain tasks/activities/documents so that it's easier to follow up with them. But see, the problem here is that NO ONE wants to take ownership of these tasks/activities/documents even though the task/activity/document is relevent to them!

And in the previous co, my work revolved around events, something like in an event mgt co. (but it's not). I'd have an event to put on so I'd go see each dept who needs to be involved in making the event happen. So say I'd go see the events dept, who's in charge of getting the backdrop/set done and transporting all the required equipment to the event site, etc. And when I tell them that I've got this event on this date and I need their help to get A, B, and C done to set up at the location of the event, I'd get told that "That's not my job". And I'm like, huh??? If it's not your job, then what the hell are u here for???

The best interdept teamwork/cooperation I've experienced has been at MNC, where I had virtually no issues getting things done internally (on the client's part is another issue altogether), most probably coz the company was small and the scale of the projects weren't large or very complex. And we were like a family there. Unfortunately, I got bored with the work there so I decided to leave... sigh...

So yeah, back to the lack of ownership. Why are ppl so afraid of taking ownership, especially for tasks that are relevent to them?? Scared they cannot do the job, is it? Seriously, these ppl make it so difficult to get things done coz Person A will tell us to check with Person B, who'll tell us to check with Person C, who'll tell us that Person A should be the owner. Geez!!

o_O

Resolution

I've resorted to writing my thoughts in Notepad during my short breaks at work, saving it and copying-pasting them to my blog the next time I go online at home.

Else I might as well close my blog right now coz I'd be too lazy to dig up past thoughts and write them down late at nite.

Quite sad, rite????

Haha...

o_O

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Battle of the Sexes

What lake did Tchaikovsky write about?

a. Swamp
b. Swan
c. Nutcracker

Answer: Swamp

The guy actually answered Swamp!!! OMG!! I laughed out loud in the car, something which I rarely do while listening to the radio, haha! It's amazing how we take for granted some things which we think everyone should know but in actuality, it's not as common as we think it is.

This took place during the Battle of the Sexes on mix.fm this morning. I'm mostly tuned into this station coz the DJs on the other stations are a tad annoying. And I enjoy listening to Richard, Shaz, and Ika. They're quite entertaining :-)

The score is 12 to 21 today, with the Men leading. Bleh...

:-p

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There's this guy at work who reminds me of Frakenstein... with the square head and sunken eyes... excluding those thingies sticking out of his neck and the green color.

:-O

Monday, November 13, 2006

Meet Lucas, the Wonder Dog...

and this is his blog...

:-)

Friday, November 10, 2006

No internet access = BORING!!!

Sigh...

I'm a boring person with a blog...

But now, I'm a boring person with a blog with NO INTERNET ACCESS AT WORK!!! No, of course I dun blog at work *looking angelic* I need the internet for research work mar...

...sob sob sob...

Am so not used to it, man....

o_O

Saturday, November 04, 2006

ACK!!!

I'm working!!!!! :-D

And it's nice to be in a familiar environment again and hearing those similar things I used to hear...

"If those people are not doing their work after you'd reminded them a few times, ESCALATE the matter!!!"

"Aiyoh, those vendors! They're telling different things to different parties!!! Wat the......!!!!"

"U know, just coz this one word wasn't in the document, the vendor says that the requirement is not specified!"

Hehe... aaaahhh... brings back ol' memories... ;-)

But but..... the downside is...

I...


Have...


NO...




INTERNET ACCESS AT WORK EXCEPT FOR MY OUTLOOK!!!!!!!!!


*WAIIIILLLLL!!!!!!!!*


:-(

So if anyone sends any emails to my yahoo/hotmail/gmail, expect delays in my responses...

Sigh...

I guess I shouldn't complain...

Bleecccckkk...